@#$Prearrange@#$ Need and desire

(10/02/2008) Is need-human needs-absolute necessity? Is desire that is something always within us? What is desire and what is need? In realm of love, how crucial need and desire are to love and to be loved? Is it something we cannot ever overcome it? Is that existance of need and desire or not even matter in love? Is love can exist without need and desire? Are all the concepts and theories about "real love" is really mean regardless of needs and desire? or the definitiaon of real love only contain certain/particular need and desire? I am questioning and I have to question these because I am experiencing it as a problem. And to get it, to beyond it, to love, I need to face it and deal with it.