Social atmosphere of Korean makes people cowardice. They cannot express themselves because they are afraid of being exposed to others' eyes because of judgemental timmid harsh irrational criticism and synicysm. It is fearful punishment. We need freedom to express-not only passive freedom but also active freedom.
The notion among non serious people. There concept of love and dating. They are not serious about their life and so to others. There is no need and reason to take a risk, challenge, dedicate themselves to other. They merely 'try out' without much giving without any intensity of what they initiatively do, pro-actively do. They don't like to spend their life with one person fully because of possibility to lose oppertunity find somebody better, more pleasent, irrisistible, or "just right". With that mind frame they will never make themself excellent in any activity, much less in realm of love. Yet what really shocking and striking is many of them are horrifically passionate about activities that make money.Their dedication to those money make activities are impressively enthusiastic. What a bizzare life of misserable human beings. What really shock me is shamelessness on their life and the fact that they crave the paper with printed number.
What about those minority who have looked this aspect? How many students of sociology, philosophy, and psychology feel this despite of their intellectual thought? Even licensed psychologist are comformists. They are not out of this category.
